I guess they grow up with it Ally, so are used to it! It would kill me too in the heat - I failed to persuade B to have her hair cut shorter before her trip - I did try lol - so made her pack a load of covered 'lacky bands to pull it back!
Gal I find chin length or just below with a layer (layers) that hit where my cheekbones ought to be the most flattering Not too long these days, or it drags my face down somehow