sit at the same place at the table?
I was just thinking about it (as you do) as I layed the table for dinner tonight.
We always sit in the same place. Our table seats 8 but we only have 6 chairs around it (the other two are stored away). Mick and I sit on one side, Mick sitting nearest the kitchen door. S sits opposite me and L sits inbetween myself and S, at the head of the table!
She has always had the head of the table ever since we got this table - the table has four drawers in it and when L was in a booster seat at the table it wouldn't fit under where the drawers are, hence her having the head of the table!
And that seating arrangement has stuck. The only time it ever changes is at Christmas when no one has the head the of the table (and of when we have people for dinner of course).