The EU total that members have provided, in financial, military and humanitarian aid, outweighs all others.
The United States has provided most military aid, true, but it is hard to quantify that contribution from the EU and the rest of Europe as each state / country is listed separately, but the total will not be that far behind the US.
And let's not forget the arms / aid from the RoW.
Nobody really knows what "enough" is. Maybe you are the only one.