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Postby JoM » 03 Feb 2013, 17:46

Tom's group of friends started going out for meals when one of them had a birthday, always to a fusion restaurant which serves mainly Indian but also Chinese and English, food to suit everyone and within their budget as the food is quite cheap and they can take in their own soft drinks. After the last one in December Tom said they were getting a bit bored with going there and he was trying to think of somewhere different for his 16th, most restaurants that they can afford though are Indian. All other local restaurants are quite pricey when you're 15 or 16 - we've always slipped him some money for his meal but I think others have to pay for themselves.

Anyway...he came up with an idea. They all come to our house and have a Chinese takeaway...meaning we have to go out (Ha! I've booked for John, Joe and myself to go for all you can eat Chinese in Wolverhampton). He was told no more than 10 and that was fine with him. In my kitchen I can seat 10 at a push - 8 can squeeze around the table when it's fully extended, we've got four dining chairs, there are two stools in the garage for when we need more seating and I can borrow two from my Mom and there are two bar stools at the breakfast bar.

He's now told me that there are 14 coming. FOURTEEN!!!!! My mind is boggling....where can the extra four sit? What about the noise? What if someone tells someone else who tells someone else and we end up with one of those scenarios where half of the school turn up?
I've primed a few of our neighbours to be on the lookout and they'll call me immediately. I've not told next door though because I think he's a bit anal about noise (it's him who had the mosquito device on his drive to ward children away) and I don't want to give him reason to moan before it's even happened.

Oh, and his birthday is on the 9th and he's having his friends around on the 16th. He had a little trial run last night and had five around knowing we always go to my parents on a Saturday night. He said they'd be coming at 6.30pm, reading between the lines he wanted us gone by then, so I told him we'd be back at 9.30pm so they'd have three hours.
We got back around 9.45pm and they'd just started watching a movie. John, Joe and myself sat watching TV in the kitchen until about 10.30 when Tom came down and said we could go into the living room as they were going into his room to play on the Wii U. Parents started arriving to take them home at 11.
They're a nice bunch of boys and girls though and yes, we could've said to Tom that they had to go but we didn't want to embarrass him and anyway, the house was immaculate - they made no mess - and they were pretty quiet so they weren't actually causing any problems apart from the fact that we were stuck in the kitchen :lol:

Fingers crossed it works out on the 16th!
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby Kaz » 03 Feb 2013, 17:50

Oh it'll be fine :lol: :lol: We have to let them do this kind of stuff sooner or later :? :mrgreen: :D :D :D :D

Besides you have that lovely new Dyson and your Karcher window vac to use................. :twisted: :lol: :lol:
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby JoM » 03 Feb 2013, 17:54

That was what we were thinking (not about the Dyson and the vac :P ), that he's got to be trusted at some point and he is a sensible boy and can be quite firm if he needs be.
Joe on the other hand will only ever be allowed to go to parties at other people's houses :P :lol:
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby debih » 03 Feb 2013, 17:57

I'm sure he'll be fine. Tell him that you are putting your trust in him and that you expect no complaints from neighbours about noise and that you don't intend on doing all the clearing up yourself and that if you find you can trust him, you will let him do it on a regular basis (but on a smaller scale next time :shock: :shock: ). It will give him something to strive towards.

And don't worry about where the extra 4 will sit - let them sort that out! He knows you can only seat 10 and only have seats for 10 so let them work out how and where the others are going to sit to eat!!
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby Diflower » 03 Feb 2013, 17:59

I'm sure it'll be fine too :)
I think I'd only worry about them sitting on sofas and eating!
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby JoM » 03 Feb 2013, 18:24

I did think of that Di but if they did wander through to the downstairs lounge from the kitchen then the sofa and chair in there have washable covers and I think that if it had seeped through to the foam then we could use the upholstery tool on the Vax to deal with that...
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby miasmum » 03 Feb 2013, 18:40

He sounds a sensible lad Jo and as you say you have to trust them sometime so a bit earlier is good to test the water.
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby Diflower » 03 Feb 2013, 19:09

JoM wrote:I did think of that Di but if they did wander through to the downstairs lounge from the kitchen then the sofa and chair in there have washable covers and I think that if it had seeped through to the foam then we could use the upholstery tool on the Vax to deal with that...


No problem then :)
Bb's boys are the same, eldest we'd happily do the same, youngest - no, probably not ever :D
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby Ally » 03 Feb 2013, 19:19

I can only say that with my 3 lads we sort of trusted them not to let us down.

And they didn't. :D

They twigged it made sense..no mess or stupidness meant mum and dad were able to trust them and have lots of friends round whilst we were out. :D

They'll be fine Jo..both your boys sound sweethearts. x
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Re: I may regret this...

Postby Weka » 03 Feb 2013, 20:26

Sounds like Tom will be fine, and your house too.... Not sure about 14 though :? Perhaps some will pull out
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