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Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby Ally » 17 May 2013, 11:54

I've been at work this morning and was just approaching the bus station to come home when right in front of me two men just threw away their empty drink cartons. :evil: :evil:

Apart from the fact there was a bin right behind them I was cross as I love this place and care enough to want it kept nice.

I asked them (very politely) if they'd mind picking up their litter.
There followed a bit of back chat from them..to which I jokingly gave back as good as I got.

Then it all went wrong. :shock:

The conversation had all been in Spanish but as I was walking away they asked if I was English..I said no I'm Scottish.
They accused me of being racist as they were Arabs!! :o
They then called me a b*tch. :shock:

I honestly haven't got a racist bone in my body and I wouldn't have cared if the flamin queen had dropped that litter I still would have said something. :evil:

I actually felt sick on the bus and feel upset. :( :(

And Don's not here to cuddle me. :cry:
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby meriad » 17 May 2013, 11:58

Aw Ally - have a (((hug)))) from me.

I am sorry this happened and you were right to say something - I would have also. And sadly the world is full of people who will always think you're 'picking' on them because of their race or religion; not because of whatever action they did.

You're the better person in this so try and put it behind you and don't let them ruin your day for you
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby JoM » 17 May 2013, 13:25

((((((Ally))))))

That is awful :( Difficult, I know, but try not to let these ignorant sods spoil your day xxx
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby Kaz » 17 May 2013, 14:08

Exacty what Jo and Meri said - there are some very ignorant people in the world, and I'm afraid some people love to pull 'the race card' when they do wrong :? :roll:

Have a hug (((((((((((((((Ally)))))))))))))))))) xxx
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby Weka » 18 May 2013, 05:14

Don't let them get the upper hand. You know you were right, it's a shame more people don't something. (((Ally)))
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby Paddypix » 18 May 2013, 08:33

You were so right to say something Ally and I admire your guts as I would have been afraid to say anything. I would just have given them hard looks which would have been off their backs like water off a duck's. It's a nasty experience but you did the right thing. I hate the race card being played when the issue is about something totally unrelated to race.

I can picture the area now that I've been there myself. :D
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby miasmum » 18 May 2013, 08:39

You are worth a zillion of them, try not to give them another thought xxxx
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby Lozzles » 18 May 2013, 08:40

(((((((((((ally)))))))))) how horrid for you, but well done. Not everyone would have spoken to them x
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby Kaz » 18 May 2013, 08:42

I don't, when I see very rough looking louts dropping litter in town :oops: I know I would just get a mouthful of abuse, or worse, so you were brave Ally xxxxxx

I just fume inwardly and walk on :oops: I do speak when it's children though, little ones who are smaller than me.................... :? ;)
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Re: Rude and bl**dy ignorant!!!

Postby saundra » 18 May 2013, 09:01

you were very brave ally
i would just fume and not say anything
now my B would pick it up show them the rubbish and put it in the bin
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