Renting and having the money in the bank does put you in a very strong position, however, when something else comes along, maybe even better....... I feel your pain and frustration Jen, having moved so many times myself, but agree with Osc about "What is for you....etc....."
Sending more hugs for you (((((((((((((Jen and E)))))))))))))) and Grrrrr at those sneaky vendors