Got to say that I am with you all on VV being our private place... it's mine as well.
Note to any of you who are driving by and want a hidey-hole away from the madding crowd: please drop in... we won't tell anyone and we will welcome you with open arms.
Thanks, no they aren't nice at all. I was teaching her hypnobreathing to help her breath through the pain . She will thank me for it in 20 years time as I noticed she was tensing her whole body up as each wave of pain came over her.